tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post268983243841436028..comments2023-11-05T19:47:59.194+08:00Comments on Helena's: Siapakah yang patut dipersalahkan?Helenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02515970148601668385noreply@blogger.comBlogger46125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-41779114679610182452007-07-20T09:44:00.000+08:002007-07-20T09:44:00.000+08:00sitilina, hey thx for dropping by. Yup, u are righ...sitilina, hey thx for dropping by. Yup, u are right, bila ibubapa dah buat tak kisah.... anak2 buat crime camni pun takde rasa guilty secubit pun kan?<BR/><BR/>Sememangnya friends play a part in influencing anak2 kita. Tugas kita juga monitor siapa kawan2 anak2 kita.Helenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02515970148601668385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-45354248988637608072007-07-20T09:42:00.000+08:002007-07-20T09:42:00.000+08:00kak luna, hehe..... mmg sakit hati kan. esp sebab ...kak luna, hehe..... mmg sakit hati kan. esp sebab perbuatan mereke ni endangers anak2 kita jugak.Helenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02515970148601668385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-84706937847825799182007-07-20T09:38:00.000+08:002007-07-20T09:38:00.000+08:00kak lady, a teacher friend did tell me, kat sekola...kak lady, a teacher friend did tell me, kat sekolah dia, selalu buat spot check, sapa yg bawak motor kena tunjuk lesen. Dia kata selalu jugak parents marah2, they say they as parents consented anak2 bawak motor pergi sekolah (without license) so kenapa pihak sekolah nak busy body.Helenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02515970148601668385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-54009208600981299962007-07-20T09:36:00.000+08:002007-07-20T09:36:00.000+08:00rose, Helena pernah tegur budak2 ni. In the end my...rose, Helena pernah tegur budak2 ni. In the end my car kena calar..... sob... sob....Helenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02515970148601668385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-39094620133461109962007-07-20T09:35:00.000+08:002007-07-20T09:35:00.000+08:00Hi OD, thx for dropping by.Yela kadang2 kita as pa...Hi OD, thx for dropping by.<BR/><BR/>Yela kadang2 kita as parents tak sedar yg kita ni seperti di tarik hidung oleh mereka. But then u are right, budak2 sekarang ni mmg pandai berlakon, depan parents baik yang amat. Ngan kawan2 macam pelesit.<BR/><BR/>Helena akui susah nak monitor budak2 esp bila mereka dah in their teens. Tapi to me ada basic things yg kita boleh monitor.Helenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02515970148601668385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-36866047817120181892007-07-20T09:32:00.000+08:002007-07-20T09:32:00.000+08:00minah songeh, I have been wondering, helmet for ki...minah songeh, I have been wondering, helmet for kids tu, betul2 ada safety features ke? Or os it helmet mainan aje? Few yrs ago I read pasal there is not children's helmet in the market.<BR/><BR/>Masa pergi clinic few days back, I keluar dari clinic to walk to my car. Ada these 2 boys on the bile lalu depan i, tengah buat stunt. Roda depan naik almost 45 degrees. Helena saja cakap "MasyaAllah!" kuat2. BUdak tu, I guess baru 10-11 tahun jawab, "ala tak apa, jatuh depan clinic takde hal punya.... "<BR/><BR/>When I drove off, I can see the kids who are now kat jalan besar, still doing their stunts. Mmm... tgh prepare nak jadi mat rempit ke... hope not.Helenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02515970148601668385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-67125606908115009092007-07-19T10:34:00.000+08:002007-07-19T10:34:00.000+08:00i agree. sifat anak2 bergantung pada didikan & kaw...i agree. <BR/><BR/>sifat anak2 bergantung pada didikan & kawalan mak bapak cemana. even masuk skolah dah campo mcm2 orang tp kalo nmak bapak still kontrol mcm benda2 like moto, keta, curfew ke, anak2 punye mindset tu xkan jd lepas bebas.<BR/><BR/>masalahnya mindset makbapak jugak.. xmo hampakan anak2.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-20370579912194031932007-07-17T23:23:00.000+08:002007-07-17T23:23:00.000+08:00ye ye, mmg ibu bapa la patut disalahkan sebab amik...ye ye, mmg ibu bapa la patut disalahkan sebab amik mudah smua perkara ni..kononnya supporting la sangat bagi kebebasan kat anak2 tanpa guidance.<BR/><BR/>maaf ckp la, kalau jenis2 mcm ni dok lalu lalang dpn umah saya (umah sy betul2 ngadap jalan besar) mmg sy doakan dorang mampus..haaaa...amik.kakLunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08273310146029907956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-84221406720950917682007-07-17T13:34:00.000+08:002007-07-17T13:34:00.000+08:00Helena...rasa-rasanya ibubapa yang perlu dipersala...Helena...rasa-rasanya ibubapa yang perlu dipersalahkan...<BR/><BR/>Sebab bila berada di rumah...memang anak2 ni tanggungjawab ibubapa sepenuhnya...sebab dah depan mata...mestilah menegur mana yang tak betul. Kalau dibiarkan aje anak2 ni akan menjadi sukar untuk ditegur...<BR/><BR/>Memang kaklady pun geram kalau ade anak2 yang berpakaian sekolah, tak pakai helmet lagi...bawak motor pun tak ikut peraturan...dah tu kadang sepatutnya ketika itu mereka patut berada di sekolah...tu lah kalau anak2 diberikan terlalu manja...<BR/><BR/>Issykk!! akak pulak yang emosional...geram baca pasal bebudak ni...aNIehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16894438214039179613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-12731945135893328542007-07-17T09:03:00.000+08:002007-07-17T09:03:00.000+08:00Mereka Dan Keluarga Mereka yang harus dipersalahka...Mereka Dan Keluarga Mereka yang harus dipersalahkan..kikikik..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-40993292575607355052007-07-17T01:54:00.000+08:002007-07-17T01:54:00.000+08:00Salam Helena. Salam perkenalan dari OD. I agree w...Salam Helena. Salam perkenalan dari OD. I agree with you. Mak bapak yang biarkan anak-anak mereka buat hal macam ni, sebenarnya mereka ini terlalu sayangkan anak sampai tak sanggup nak tegur or tak sedar perangai anak di luar macam hantu or mereka memang bodoh? Ada bebudak yang di depan mak bapak, baik. Pijak semut pun tak mati. Tapi, kat belakang...<BR/>Yang menyedihkan, budak-budak ni naik motor laju-laju pada waktu Maghrib. Kalau OD masa kecik-kecik dulu, setengah jam sebelum Maghrib, mesti ada kat rumah. Kalau tidak, kena la selian kat belakang. <BR/>Dunia dah nak kiamat...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05523035299491402935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-8673839361652094162007-07-16T16:24:00.000+08:002007-07-16T16:24:00.000+08:00I agree with you. Pernah once my brother terlangga...I agree with you. Pernah once my brother terlanggar a 16 year old boy. My brother baru berhenti dekat simpang and was on first gear tiba ada this motor laju. Ter campak dalam longkang. Bapak dia datang marah2- we asked the father to bring anak dia ke hospital then ke balai polis. Bapaknya nak bawak sendiri. We found out he never reported the incident to the police. Anak dia tak ada lesen.<BR/>One more thing yang I tak suka bila nampak bapaknay pakai topi keledar tapi anak2 biarkan without. Everytime I nampak this scene dekat rumah I sure mulut I macam berteh jagung.<BR/><BR/>Once I nampak this guy squat and hold on belakang motor yang berjalan. Jalan keluar dari jalan jelatek. Kalau keta brake mengejut dah nyawa melayang.Minahsongehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13802013201725779675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-86943195006119488752007-07-16T08:47:00.000+08:002007-07-16T08:47:00.000+08:00sherrina, HAHA you really made me laugh on this mo...sherrina, HAHA you really made me laugh on this monday morning la.... ye la kan. Peduli apakan they all tu. As long as they stay clear of my path. And my family's.<BR/><BR/>Few months ago, found out that a mat rempit who later bukak workshop to service and kasi power motor lots of mat rempit yang lain, passed away in a motor accident while doing his stunts. Mmmm....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-43650136061751455942007-07-16T08:44:00.000+08:002007-07-16T08:44:00.000+08:00kak long,helena-zafyra@hotmail.comkak long,<BR/><BR/>helena-zafyra@hotmail.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-38375887329103147402007-07-16T08:43:00.000+08:002007-07-16T08:43:00.000+08:00Hi Ruby, Well I guess after what they have to go t...Hi Ruby, <BR/><BR/>Well I guess after what they have to go through, the Iraqis feel that they have to be prepared for whatever, eh? Yela, after having to be on their toes for so long just to be alive, what can i say?<BR/><BR/>I totally agree with you that the schools should stop making tudung a uniform. Although I understand the move, but then, this is what you'll get la. Budak2 bertudung doing lots of immoral acts, and doing so while bertudung. And afetr school hours, lagi teruk perangai mereka.<BR/><BR/>I'm currently working in the manufacturing line. The 1st annual dinner I attended, was really a shocker to me! (B4 i was in the banking industry)<BR/><BR/>In the factory, most of the workers would be the operators, young girls aged 17 - 20. These girls mostly bertudung. They look so sweet and bersopan santun.<BR/><BR/>Anuual Dinner time, most of them would get rid of their tudungs, datang with a spagetti string outfit or something similar that they rent from the bridal shop(with no brassiere I tell you) and they would really let their hair down. For that night. That one night. <BR/><BR/>Off and on I would see them during the weekends at Parkson or JJ, and they will be without their tudungs as well. I just dont understand it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-44400857679271629212007-07-16T08:28:00.000+08:002007-07-16T08:28:00.000+08:00kak long, Helena taknak comment sangat pasal mak b...kak long, Helena taknak comment sangat pasal mak bapak bawak anak2 sampai 3-4 orang naik motor. Memang bahaya, mmg takut nak memikirkan nya if motor tu skidded. Akan tetapi dia orang ni Helena rasa terdesak, sebab hanya ada motor sebagai kenderaan.<BR/><BR/>Akan tetapi, bila dipikirkan balik, semua tu excuses jugak kan.... mm... entahlah. Kadang2 benda2 begini boleh dielakkan, tapi si bapak nak menyenangkan diri sendiri, tu la sbbnya satu rombongan naik motor....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-433935657695969212007-07-16T08:24:00.000+08:002007-07-16T08:24:00.000+08:00fid, hehe, anak i punya motor pun selalu "accident...fid, hehe, anak i punya motor pun selalu "accident" dalam rumah tu.... hehe. Tapi sekarang ni since battery dia dah problem, so motor tu jalan slow la sangat... hehe.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-91531413704056484452007-07-16T08:23:00.000+08:002007-07-16T08:23:00.000+08:00cik dinz.... well some people would say.... buat a...cik dinz.... well some people would say.... buat anak pandai, jaga anak tak pandai.<BR/><BR/>Helena pernah come across budak2 dok racing kat Senawang.... mak oii.... macam pesta. Polis standby pun they all buat tak reti je.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-14275716240944009552007-07-16T08:21:00.000+08:002007-07-16T08:21:00.000+08:00izz, itula masalahnya, gi kedai pun mana boleh nai...izz, itula masalahnya, gi kedai pun mana boleh naik motor kalau takde lesen.... hehe.<BR/><BR/>Helena kalau tengok budak2 bawak motor, if mereka belakang my car, mesti Helena tak kasi mereka potong.... hehe. Tapi kene pandai dont let them be so near, nanti tak pasal2 kete kita yg disodok nya.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-6125264190275511972007-07-15T23:06:00.000+08:002007-07-15T23:06:00.000+08:00alah kak helena....kecohlah pasal budak naik motor...alah kak helena....kecohlah pasal budak naik motor takde lesen lah, takde helmetlah, mak bapak bodohlah. <BR/><BR/>Oklah tu, try to look on the 'brighter' side....<BR/><BR/>1. kalau budak2 tu eksiden, doktor dan hospital dapat extra income.<BR/><BR/>2. Ubat2 di farmasi akan bertambah laku<BR/><BR/>3. Kalau nasib lebih 'baik', bilangan manusia tahap reject shop ni dapat dikurangkan atau lebih baik dihapuskan sama skali dari muka bumi ni. Tak le membesar jadi orang dewasa yang hampeh, kan.<BR/><BR/>4. Kedai repair motor bleh cari makan<BR/><BR/>5. Cikgu skolah tak pening kepala bila budak2 reject shop ni MC sebulan sebab eksiden atau lebih baik MC selamanya...<BR/><BR/>6. Kedai pajak gadai tersenyum girang sebab mak budak reject shop kene gadai barang kemas untuk cover perbelanjaan perubatan anak yg eksiden.<BR/><BR/>Tapi yang tak bestnya....<BR/><BR/>1. Kedai emas akan kurang income sebab mak budak reject shop tak lagi spend duit beli gelang sebab kene spend beli ubat anak eksiden<BR/><BR/>2. Driver bas skolah pun tak suka sebab nanti kurang budak yg dibawa ke sekolah, maknanya kurang yuran bas.<BR/><BR/>So.....kira 'oklah' tu kan budak2 ni merempit motor tak pakai helmet...ok what....wahahahaha...sherrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02366485297624564784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-6511911008875162412007-07-14T18:23:00.000+08:002007-07-14T18:23:00.000+08:00salam, sis, boleh tak saya nak minta email add? ad...salam, <BR/><BR/>sis, boleh tak saya nak minta email add? ada personal thing nak cakap ni :D..boleh gak email kat saya widaad98@yahoo.com .tqKaklong Syikinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07770201652430218627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-70646305098660757472007-07-14T08:54:00.000+08:002007-07-14T08:54:00.000+08:00Hi Helena,I agree with you parents play an importa...Hi Helena,<BR/><BR/>I agree with you parents play an important role with the character building of their kids.<BR/><BR/>I ada kenal an Iraqi family. Dia suruh anak lelaki dia umur 14 tahun belajar memandu. Bila I tanya dia, dia cakap it is very important for them to learn young. (I understand them as they have the 'pelarian' mentality, so must be prepared at all times). But I tulis ni to confirm parents have a big role. Her son drove at 14 (illegally of course), but he obeyed all laws on the road.<BR/><BR/>Interesting you mentioned this: 'budak2 bertudung (no helmet) ni actually gave me tunjuk isyarat lucah pada I'. I am annoyed nowadays how budak2 tak hormat the fact dia pakai tudung and yet kelakuan tak senonoh. I think schools must stop making tudung a uniform. There is no honesty as I see it today. The other day, as I was walking, I saw a girl in short sleeve and tudung, my jaw dropped! Apan nak jadi with our society ni kan?<BR/><BR/>But back to road safety, I feel we have lost our touch as a caring society. Take care and cheers.ruby ahmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00462582684731705669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-332657114696107552007-07-13T19:15:00.000+08:002007-07-13T19:15:00.000+08:00salam,sokong pendpt sis 1000% mmg sikap parent yg ...salam,<BR/><BR/>sokong pendpt sis 1000% <BR/><BR/>mmg sikap parent yg membantu membentuk perangai anak2 camtu terutama bab motorbike ni, <BR/><BR/>tak yah gi jauh, tgk aje kalau parent naik motor n terselit kat tgh or kat bakul tu anak kecil depa yg tak dipakaikan HELMET langsung!! saya terfikir, depa tak fikir ke kemalangan tu bila2 boleh berlaku? buatnya terjatuh atas jln raya n anak2 yg tak berhelmet tu terhentak kepala kat atas jalan, kuat pulak tu..tak ke lembik kepala anak tu..kalau meninggal terus tak pe, mmgla sedih, tp anak tu tak suffer sakit lama. <BR/><BR/>ni kalau ada masalah dlm tengkorak / kepala bagai, anak2 terlantar kat hospital, sapa yg susah? kan parent..mana nak byr bil hospital lagi, nak bergilir menjaga lagi, kan menyusahkan diri mereka juga..ngan budak tu tanggung sakit lagi..paling takut, budak tu cacat n tak leh bangun sampai mati, sapa yg susah balik?<BR/><BR/>bagus ngan cadangan community servis tu sbg hukuman. budak2 yg kena tahan tu, elok sangat antara hukumannya dibawak ziarah hospital wad org2 kemalangan motor, biar tgk sengsaranya pesakit2 tu, lagi satu, p bawak ke rumah2 mayat kat hospital tu, bagi tengok mayat2 mati sbb kemalangan rempit motor ni. biar demam seminggu tak pe, asalkan depa insaf. kalau tak insaf gak, mmg nak kena belasah cukup2..Kaklong Syikinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07770201652430218627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-71812227028935972672007-07-13T18:20:00.000+08:002007-07-13T18:20:00.000+08:00ms.helenasokonggggggg...mak bapa yg belikan anak b...ms.helena<BR/>sokonggggggg...<BR/>mak bapa yg belikan anak bawah umur motor dan kereta itu hendak membuktikan kebodohan mereka semata2..konon sayang anak padahal tindakan macam nak bunuh anak..sorry to say....<BR/>btw, i dah belikan my baby 'motor' red in colour hahahahaaa..semalam baru terjun longkang(longkang kecil je) depan rumah hahahaa...itulah bawa motor tak tau nak tekan break!(tak de break pun)salah mummy juga sibuk nak buat mende lain anak dah meluncur laju...but so cute muka dia masa dia tertonggeng tu..macam tgh say 'oh mummy help me...'opss cerita kisah sendiri plak..Fidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14743243001189360983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19542205.post-50503786804682162282007-07-13T16:04:00.000+08:002007-07-13T16:04:00.000+08:00salah mak bapak. tak tau nak jaga anak. tak pandai...salah mak bapak. tak tau nak jaga anak. tak pandai jaga anak. tak ambik tau anak buat apa...<BR/>kengkadang mak bapak siap backing lagi kalu anak buat salah.<BR/><BR/>mana tak tumpahnya kuah kalau tak ke atas lantai....cikdinzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07204643748743548049noreply@blogger.com